In my own little slice of the world, this is what I have observed and learned from other victims: there is a cycle of abuse that does manipulate the victim into behaving in ways that seem strange to outside observers — as if they are “asking for it.” And since people love to blame the [...]

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Admin on November 22nd, 2009

Proof that Psychopaths/ Malignant Narcissists are adept at mimicking normalcy whilst exploiting everyone in their domain. Case in point “Sam Vaknin” (self proclaimed authority on narcissism) attacks his own character in an attempt to gain our sympathy, trust but most of all attention. And it worked!
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Yet another case of Unrighteous Dominion over a spouse. I grew up admiring Christie Brinkley, the pretty blonde supermodel and actress.  A decade long marriage with a narcissistic, cheating, porn addicted husband would leave a lot of anger, even for Christie.  I can’t help it, rich and gorgeous and I feel deeply sorry for her…

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Admin on October 5th, 2009

Dr. Sam Vaknin
Most everything you want to know about abusers and emotional, verbal and psychological abuse.  Abuse in relationships, abuse in the family and how to cope with stalkers.
- What is Abuse?
- The Gradations of Abuse
- The Guilt of the Abused - Pathologizing the Victim
- Coping with Your Abuser
- The Abuser in Denial
- Avoiding Your [...]

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Admin on April 1st, 2009

Personality Disorder: Narcissistic Personality Disorder

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